December 11, 2018

2018 Holiday Gift Guide

Merry December friends! I was inspired to create a holiday gift guide after I walked through the malls and saw the same run-of-the-mill gifts that EVERYBODY will be getting this year- again.

Holiday shopping can be exhausting and frustrating, especially when you’re looking for that perfect gift for your best friend, coworker, or significant other.. so I took the legwork out for you.

So turn up your holiday Pandora, refill your coffee and happy shopping!



1. Silk Lash Holiday Travel Kit – here

2. Gemstone Facial Roller – here

3. Aventurine Kiss Lip Serum – here

4. Multi- Benne Stain – here

5. Poppy & Pout body scrub – here

6. Hydro Flask – here

7. Luminizer X Quad by RMS Beauty – here

8. Glossier Gen G – here

9. Dainty Love Knot Bangle – here

10. Quip Electric Toothbrush – here

11. Mermaid Mask – here

12. Topshop Faux Fur Pom Beanie – here

13. Stella Valle Hoop Earrings – here

14. Leather Pouch Wallet – here

15. Hum Nutrition Glow Vitamins – here

16. Long Sleeve Jacket – here

17. One Step Correct – here


for her

1. Brush Set – here

2. Cheetah mule – here

3. Baggage Claim Gold Eye Masks – here

4. Cuticle Repair Cream Treatment – here

5. Dew Drops Coconut Gel Highlighter – here

6. Sole Society Faux Leather Duffle Bag – here

7. Superfood Face Oil – here

8. Bootie in Ivory – here

9. Glow to Go Mask Set – here

10. Striped PJ Set – here

11. Magnet Mask Set – here

12. Stilla Heaven’s Hue Highlighter – here

13. Faux Fur Slippers – here

14. Gustav Turtleneck – here

15. Daniel Wellington watch – here

16. Headache Gift Set – here

17. Pashli Nano Leather Satchel – here


1. The Corda Necklace – here

2. Fragrance Diffuser – here

3. Cannabis Sativa Hemp Seed Oil – here

4. Strike Matches – here

5. Reflexology Massage Mat – here

6. Large Glass Jar Candle – here

7. Essential Mindful Practices – here

8. Nighty Night Moon Juice – here

9. Mental Clarity Crystal Healing Kit – here

10. Face Steam – here

11. Moon Juice Cookbook – here


for him

1. iPhone Charger Bracelet – here

2. Montblanc Leather Card Holder – here

3. Herschel Supply Co Duffel Bag – here

4. Indoor Gardening Kit – here

5. Cocktail Maker Set – here

6. John Varvatos Zip Boot – here

7. CALPAK Luggage Set – here

8. Solid Cashmere Scarf – here

9. Canada Goose Slim Fit Jacket – here

10. Dior Men’s Sausage Aftershave – here

11. Wool Blend Sweater – here

12. Clic Card Leather iPhone Case – here

13. Aesop Moroccan Neroli Shaving Lotion – here

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